def _check_living(self, pid, option=None):
        """
        进程活着就返回,否则尝试从config中remove
        :param pid:
        :param option:
        :return:
        """
        if ProcessHelper.is_living(pid):
            return True

        try_cnt = g_try_cnt
        while True:
            self.cf.read(K_CMD_PNAME)
            options = self.cf.options(K_CMD_PCMD)
            if option is None:
                option = K_CMD_PCMD_ADD_HEAD + str(pid)
            if options.count(option) == 0:
                break

            if try_cnt <> g_try_cnt:
                '''
                    除来第一次之外都sleep一下
                '''
                time.sleep(1)

            self.cf.remove_option(K_CMD_PCMD, option)
            with open(K_CMD_PNAME, 'w') as f:
                self.cf.write(f)

            try_cnt -= 1
            if try_cnt == 0:
                self.__print_proxy('check_living failed pid: ' + str(pid))
                break
        return False